Welcome Evangeline!
Wow! I’m excited to introduce our daughter, Evangeline Grace! She was born Thursday, December 2, 2010 at 12:24 AM. She is a darling and has us both wrapped around her finger!
On November 30 I went to the doctor for my non-stress test and another ultrasound. The non-stress test went great, but on the ultrasound it showed that my amniotic fluid was low and there was some fluid around Evie’s heart. The doctor decided that I needed to be induced the next day to play it safe. We were so excited to know that our baby was coming!
We had to call December 1 in the morning to see if there was a bed and we were told to be there at 7:00 am. When we got there the nurse told us to expect labor to last 12-14 hours. She was right because my labor was 14 hours long. Unfortunately, when I arrived, my blood pressure was very high and the nurse told me that because of the induction, I wouldn’t be able to do the whirlpool bath or use a birthing ball. I had to stay in bed except to use the restroom. They began pitocin and tried to break my water, but couldn’t get the water to break at 9:00 in the morning. Later in the morning, my blood pressure continued to be high. I spent the whole day lying on my left side for an hour and then on my right side for an hour. We watched Sean of the Dead while I waited for labor to start. My labor pains progressed quickly from minor (a level 4) to more pain (an 8). I tried breathing through contractions, picturing relaxing places, holding Ed’s hand, and listening to relaxing music. Nothing really helped. I was disappointed that I had to lie in one place when I was in pain. When I reached an 8 in pain level, I decided to get an epidural. At the same time, they started me on magnesium for my blood pressure. The magnesium made me feel hot and drunk! The epidural was amazing. I couldn’t believe how quickly I started to feel better. I did get sick to my stomach several times while in labor, but for the most part, I felt so much better! I hardly even noticed contractions. In the early afternoon, the nurse said she was worried because the baby’s heartbeat was dropping with each contraction. She started preparing us for a c-section. She got the doctor and they decided to wait and watch for a while. They had me try some different positions to try to get the baby to move. After another hour or so, the baby’s heartbeat was steadier so she must have moved down further. I came in dilated at a 1 and that moved slowly. I tried to rest and nap, but didn’t have much luck. I was just happy to have less pain! The nurse that was on duty until 11 at night thought she would be there when the baby was born, but she got off early. It turns out we still didn’t have the baby by 11. Around 9:00, I started to feel pain again, which is a sign that we were getting close to time to push. The nurse checked me and I was fully dilated, but the baby was still not far enough down so we decided to labor down for a while and relax to see if the baby would move down with contractions. We kept getting phone calls and texts because the labor was lasting quite a while. I finally told Ed to turn phones off so we could focus on having the baby. At 10:00 pm it was finally time to push! I couldn’t wait. We began pushing with Ed holding one leg and the nurse held the other. After an hour the baby hadn’t moved down much so the doctor came in and moved her head so she could move down further. This seemed to work and Dr. Fahnlander left while we continued pushing. The whole time the nurse and doctor kept saying “she” when they talked about the baby. They could see the baby’s head and thought there might be some red hair! Ed even got to look! I continued pushing without much luck and was getting pretty tired, but I kept trying to push hard so I wouldn’t have a c-section. At midnight the baby still wasn’t moving so the nurse left to get the doctor. I had a feeling they were talking about having a c-section. Dr. Fahnlander came back in. They realized that my water had broken some time during the evening and saw that there was some meconium in the water. We knew that the baby would be taken away before I could hold her so that added to my worries. Dr. Fahnlander moved the baby’s head and suddenly she started moving. I even got to feel her head as she was coming out! The baby was out in a few minutes! Finally! They weren’t even ready for her to come that quickly! They put her on my stomach for a minute and then Ed cut her cord. They said they were going to see if they were right. They were! It was a girl! Evangeline was finally here. She weighed 5 pounds 12 ounces and was 19 inches long. A skinny little girl! I got to see her after they cleaned her off, but I didn’t get to hold her until we got to my room. Our nurses were wonderful and helped us take great care of Evie. Evie was born ready to nurse and I had no problems feeding her. The cardiologist took a look at the fluid around her heart and decided we needed to come back in to have it checked in 6-8 weeks. We had a good stay at the hospital, but we were ready to head home!
Our first night at home was quite a wake-up call after having Evangeline sleep in the nursery at night at the hospital. I don’t think she slept at all that night and neither did we! I was pretty worried about that, but she quickly began sleeping better at night. I usually am up until midnight and then she will sleep until I wake her up at 3:30 to eat. I am hoping that I will get the okay to stop waking her up to eat in the middle of the night. We visited the doctor on the Monday she came home and she seemed to be doing well. However, they found some canker sores in her throat that they were worried about being cold sores. Luckily, we watched her carefully and it turned out to be nothing! That first week she was back up to her birth weight and then lost an ounce. We have been in the doctor’s office almost weekly watching her weight. She was gaining at a rate of 3 ounces a week instead of the desired 7 ounces so we have started to supplement breastfeeding with formula every other time I feed her. She went from 6 pounds 2 ounces to 6 pounds 10 ounces in 6 days! We will be back at the doctor’s office this week to check her weight. I am hoping to be well over 7 pounds by then. She seems heavier and her cheeks are a little chubbier!
I was so lucky to have my mom come and stay with me for a week and a half after Ed went back to work. She was a life saver! I cannot thank her enough for her help. I felt much more prepared by the time she went back home. Around the third week we realized that Evie was a fussy baby! She cried often for up to an hour and a half even though nothing seemed wrong with her. I knew this was common and wasn’t too concerned, but it made it a little harder getting started. Especially because I am not getting as much sleep as I would like. I felt kind of guilty admitting that she is so fussy, but we love her and still think she’s great. We are starting to figure her out and get on a schedule. She still has fussy times, but we know that swaddling her really helps. She likes us to walk her around or be in the swing. She also falls asleep to the sound of the vacuum or static on the radio. I say whatever works in order to get some rest. I have heard that babies usually start to get less fussy by 3 months so we will see!
We had a wonderful Christmas with our families and spent a quiet New Year’s Eve at home. Evie, of course, got tons of Christmas presents. I loved spending Christmas with Ed and Evie. I can’t wait until she starts opening presents! We really want Christmas to be special for her!
Things have been going very well lately. Ed and I even got to have some time together. We went to the movie True Grit and enjoyed the time, but I missed my little girl a lot. This week she will be six weeks old and I will be heading back to work next week. I am not ready to go back, but I also think that I will be ready for a routine. I am sure I will be looking forward to spring break so I can spend my time with her!
We got to see her first smiles while she was awake yesterday! What a wonderful thing! She was sitting in her swing smiling away and then she spit up. I wonder if it really was a smile! She smiled again today and I even got a picture of her smiling. Well, it’s time for me to wrap it up! Hugs to all!
Wow! I’m excited to introduce our daughter, Evangeline Grace! She was born Thursday, December 2, 2010 at 12:24 AM. She is a darling and has us both wrapped around her finger!
On November 30 I went to the doctor for my non-stress test and another ultrasound. The non-stress test went great, but on the ultrasound it showed that my amniotic fluid was low and there was some fluid around Evie’s heart. The doctor decided that I needed to be induced the next day to play it safe. We were so excited to know that our baby was coming!
We had to call December 1 in the morning to see if there was a bed and we were told to be there at 7:00 am. When we got there the nurse told us to expect labor to last 12-14 hours. She was right because my labor was 14 hours long. Unfortunately, when I arrived, my blood pressure was very high and the nurse told me that because of the induction, I wouldn’t be able to do the whirlpool bath or use a birthing ball. I had to stay in bed except to use the restroom. They began pitocin and tried to break my water, but couldn’t get the water to break at 9:00 in the morning. Later in the morning, my blood pressure continued to be high. I spent the whole day lying on my left side for an hour and then on my right side for an hour. We watched Sean of the Dead while I waited for labor to start. My labor pains progressed quickly from minor (a level 4) to more pain (an 8). I tried breathing through contractions, picturing relaxing places, holding Ed’s hand, and listening to relaxing music. Nothing really helped. I was disappointed that I had to lie in one place when I was in pain. When I reached an 8 in pain level, I decided to get an epidural. At the same time, they started me on magnesium for my blood pressure. The magnesium made me feel hot and drunk! The epidural was amazing. I couldn’t believe how quickly I started to feel better. I did get sick to my stomach several times while in labor, but for the most part, I felt so much better! I hardly even noticed contractions. In the early afternoon, the nurse said she was worried because the baby’s heartbeat was dropping with each contraction. She started preparing us for a c-section. She got the doctor and they decided to wait and watch for a while. They had me try some different positions to try to get the baby to move. After another hour or so, the baby’s heartbeat was steadier so she must have moved down further. I came in dilated at a 1 and that moved slowly. I tried to rest and nap, but didn’t have much luck. I was just happy to have less pain! The nurse that was on duty until 11 at night thought she would be there when the baby was born, but she got off early. It turns out we still didn’t have the baby by 11. Around 9:00, I started to feel pain again, which is a sign that we were getting close to time to push. The nurse checked me and I was fully dilated, but the baby was still not far enough down so we decided to labor down for a while and relax to see if the baby would move down with contractions. We kept getting phone calls and texts because the labor was lasting quite a while. I finally told Ed to turn phones off so we could focus on having the baby. At 10:00 pm it was finally time to push! I couldn’t wait. We began pushing with Ed holding one leg and the nurse held the other. After an hour the baby hadn’t moved down much so the doctor came in and moved her head so she could move down further. This seemed to work and Dr. Fahnlander left while we continued pushing. The whole time the nurse and doctor kept saying “she” when they talked about the baby. They could see the baby’s head and thought there might be some red hair! Ed even got to look! I continued pushing without much luck and was getting pretty tired, but I kept trying to push hard so I wouldn’t have a c-section. At midnight the baby still wasn’t moving so the nurse left to get the doctor. I had a feeling they were talking about having a c-section. Dr. Fahnlander came back in. They realized that my water had broken some time during the evening and saw that there was some meconium in the water. We knew that the baby would be taken away before I could hold her so that added to my worries. Dr. Fahnlander moved the baby’s head and suddenly she started moving. I even got to feel her head as she was coming out! The baby was out in a few minutes! Finally! They weren’t even ready for her to come that quickly! They put her on my stomach for a minute and then Ed cut her cord. They said they were going to see if they were right. They were! It was a girl! Evangeline was finally here. She weighed 5 pounds 12 ounces and was 19 inches long. A skinny little girl! I got to see her after they cleaned her off, but I didn’t get to hold her until we got to my room. Our nurses were wonderful and helped us take great care of Evie. Evie was born ready to nurse and I had no problems feeding her. The cardiologist took a look at the fluid around her heart and decided we needed to come back in to have it checked in 6-8 weeks. We had a good stay at the hospital, but we were ready to head home!
Our first night at home was quite a wake-up call after having Evangeline sleep in the nursery at night at the hospital. I don’t think she slept at all that night and neither did we! I was pretty worried about that, but she quickly began sleeping better at night. I usually am up until midnight and then she will sleep until I wake her up at 3:30 to eat. I am hoping that I will get the okay to stop waking her up to eat in the middle of the night. We visited the doctor on the Monday she came home and she seemed to be doing well. However, they found some canker sores in her throat that they were worried about being cold sores. Luckily, we watched her carefully and it turned out to be nothing! That first week she was back up to her birth weight and then lost an ounce. We have been in the doctor’s office almost weekly watching her weight. She was gaining at a rate of 3 ounces a week instead of the desired 7 ounces so we have started to supplement breastfeeding with formula every other time I feed her. She went from 6 pounds 2 ounces to 6 pounds 10 ounces in 6 days! We will be back at the doctor’s office this week to check her weight. I am hoping to be well over 7 pounds by then. She seems heavier and her cheeks are a little chubbier!
I was so lucky to have my mom come and stay with me for a week and a half after Ed went back to work. She was a life saver! I cannot thank her enough for her help. I felt much more prepared by the time she went back home. Around the third week we realized that Evie was a fussy baby! She cried often for up to an hour and a half even though nothing seemed wrong with her. I knew this was common and wasn’t too concerned, but it made it a little harder getting started. Especially because I am not getting as much sleep as I would like. I felt kind of guilty admitting that she is so fussy, but we love her and still think she’s great. We are starting to figure her out and get on a schedule. She still has fussy times, but we know that swaddling her really helps. She likes us to walk her around or be in the swing. She also falls asleep to the sound of the vacuum or static on the radio. I say whatever works in order to get some rest. I have heard that babies usually start to get less fussy by 3 months so we will see!
We had a wonderful Christmas with our families and spent a quiet New Year’s Eve at home. Evie, of course, got tons of Christmas presents. I loved spending Christmas with Ed and Evie. I can’t wait until she starts opening presents! We really want Christmas to be special for her!
Things have been going very well lately. Ed and I even got to have some time together. We went to the movie True Grit and enjoyed the time, but I missed my little girl a lot. This week she will be six weeks old and I will be heading back to work next week. I am not ready to go back, but I also think that I will be ready for a routine. I am sure I will be looking forward to spring break so I can spend my time with her!
We got to see her first smiles while she was awake yesterday! What a wonderful thing! She was sitting in her swing smiling away and then she spit up. I wonder if it really was a smile! She smiled again today and I even got a picture of her smiling. Well, it’s time for me to wrap it up! Hugs to all!